Answers/Opinion of others:
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JasonWhat do I do? Well, when I do feel like I'm about to show any sign of emotional weakness, I distance myself far away from everyone else physically and emotionally (I'm actually really good at it). And when they do see me crying, I lash out at them and isolate myself further from people because I don't like letting people see me in my vulnerable state and continue on like nothing is wrong afterwards.
So, it goes without saying but don't follow my example. The best thing you can do right now in your situation is talk to your partner about this rather than cry alone in frustration. Sit him/her (Sorry, can't tell either way by your username) down in a serious talk and let him/her know how you're feeling. Don't make it sound like you're accusing him/her of anything even if you are though, most people react badly to this and will only make things worse. To avoid this, whenever you sense that you're about to accuse him of something he/she wronged you of, start the sentence with the phrase: " I feel like..." Sounds too simple but it generally works. If he isn't mature and open enough to confront this problem in your relationship and consider your feelings, then he/she obviously isn't a good partner and you deserve better and you're better off without them in your life. No pressure but you should do it soon because time will only make things worse.
Hope this helps and I wish you all the luck :) Things will get better.
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So, it goes without saying but don't follow my example. The best thing you can do right now in your situation is talk to your partner about this rather than cry alone in frustration. Sit him/her (Sorry, can't tell either way by your username) down in a serious talk and let him/her know how you're feeling. Don't make it sound like you're accusing him/her of anything even if you are though, most people react badly to this and will only make things worse. To avoid this, whenever you sense that you're about to accuse him of something he/she wronged you of, start the sentence with the phrase: " I feel like..." Sounds too simple but it generally works. If he isn't mature and open enough to confront this problem in your relationship and consider your feelings, then he/she obviously isn't a good partner and you deserve better and you're better off without them in your life. No pressure but you should do it soon because time will only make things worse.
Hope this helps and I wish you all the luck :) Things will get better.
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whathadh... When I feel like crying I generally try not to when I know people are around. It takes a lot for me to feel comfortable crying in front of anyone. So usually I just hold it in til I know I'm completely alone but I mean if it's something really heavy and I just can't hold it back I let it out.
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Kristine ♥ im the type who cries so fkn easily and there's no way i could stop it. :(
i hate it!
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Kay When I feel like crying usually I cry...
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I am agree with the answer of Kay - you must cry if you feel like crying in order for you to release the feelings that burdened you...
=) As far as i know...., there's nothing wrong in crying... =)
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